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My One Little Word: A Reflection on 2016 and Goals for 2017

In 2016, I focused on being nimble.¬†Nimble was the perfect word for me this last year, and it’s a word I am nowhere near being done with.

Nimble was all about a mindset shift and learning how to bend without breaking. Nimble was about how I react and deal with the circumstances around me.

Being nimble meant embracing, rather than fighting against, the different seasons I was in throughout the year. There were seasons in which I focused almost exclusively on my health. There were seasons in which I prioritized my work. And there were seasons that focused on relationships and the people in my life.

Being nimble also challenged me on a daily basis. I tend to be rigid and stubborn when I think things should be a certain way. Reminding myself to be nimble helped get rid of the “shoulds” and alleviate the anxiety I felt in those situations without feeling as though I was giving up. It helped me focus on the bigger picture and recognize what was most important.

Learning to be nimble in my approach is by no means a simple process. It’s something that I hope to continue building upon this year. In fact, I’m certain that I will be working on being more nimble for the rest of my life.

This is my third year picking a guiding word to live out the next 12 months by. The first two years, my words seemed to pick me. They popped into my head sometime in the fall and felt like just what I needed in my life at that time. This year, there was no magic moment where my word came to me. Instead, I had to get a lot more intentional about picking my word based on the feelings I want to cultivate.

ENOUGH

Nimble pushed me more than I expected, and I am grateful for that, but this year I want to settle in. I want to let go. I want to not put so much pressure on myself and my current situation, whatever that may be.

While the word “enough” could feel like pulling back, I see it as an active word that will build on my intentions throughout 2016. I still want to make big things happen in this new year, but I want to approach those things from a place of enough.

I want to let go of the frantic hustle and have grace with the realities of my day-to-day life. While I want to work hard towards my goals and am starting out this year with a very full plate, I want to do so from a place of contentment. I want to grow and change while knowing that this, right here, is enough.

This year, I have three primary intentions for how I want “enough” to show up in my life:

  • I have enough. I have enough time for the things that are important. I have enough money to make changes in my life. I have enough stuff – more than enough.
  • I am enough. The person I am right now is exactly who I need to be. I can still grow and change, but do so knowing that I am enough just as I am.
  • This, right here, is enough. No more setting unrealistic expectations. I want to focus on being content with and appreciative of the moment I am in. I want to let go of the “shoulds” and just work on the things I want to achieve.

Along with that, a few of my more concrete goals are:

  • Moving more and making a habit of clean eating.
  • Creating and documenting more. Specifically, I want to complete my #create52 challenge (more on that later), get into the habit of daily journaling, and document the year with a combination of Project Life and Ali Edwards’ One Little Word class (which you can see in the images throughout this post).
  • Spend less. This year, I want to finish paying off my car loan and build up an emergency fund.

I’m so excited to find out what enough looks like for me this year.

Do you pick a word for the year? I’d love to know what words or goals are guiding you in 2017.